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          The story of my life - Mark Parsons  | 
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             Mark Parsons was born on 25th April 1837 in South 
              Cheriton, Horsington, Somerset, England. He is the son of Meshach 
              Parsons and Elizabeth Hillier both of 
              Horsington, Somerset. 
             He is our 6th cousin 3 times removed,and is descended form Morgan 
              Seymour of East Orchard ,Dorset who died in 1691 in Iwerne Minster, 
              Dorset.
 This is an account of his life written by Mark Parsons himself 
              
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             I was born at South Cheriton, a small hamlet on the parish of Horsington, 
              on the twenty-fifth of April 1837, and was the eldest child of Meschach 
              and Elizabeth Parsons.  | 
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              Horsington Rectory c 1885
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             Until I was eight years old my life was that of an ordinary child. 
              I was baptized in the Parish Church at Horsington and joined their 
              Sunday School when I was six years old; but in 1845 a Wesleyan Methodist 
              Sunday School was opened at Cheriton so I joined that; there I learnt 
              to read. 
             The same year I began regular work at Hull Farm, South Cheriton 
              for 1s.6d. a week. I was there for eight years, and then I went 
              to Ringclose Farm, Horsington Marsh, for one and a half years at 
              4s.6d. 
             Cheriton House was my next place, where I stayed five years at 
              5s. till I was over twenty. Those were hard times, and more than 
              once have seen a fellow boy-worker frighten away the half-mad dog, 
              that he might steal the animal’s dinner. I used to drive out 
              Mrs. Bewsey and fill up my time in the garden and 
              on the farm; I also drove the family to Templecombe Congregational 
              Church every Sunday, but after two years I rejoined the Methodists. 
             At last my master gave up his farm to his son, Mr. John 
              Bewsey, and I afterwards worked for him at his other farm 
              in Yenston. Every night I used to bring the milk from this farm 
              to Cheriton. On one occasion the rector stopped me and said, “Why 
              do you not touch your cap to me?” I answered that if I broke 
              the brim of my hat he would not give me a new one. About three months 
              later he met me again and said “My lad, don’t you know 
              that I am your shepherd?” I said no, that I did not know that 
              he was. “Oh! Yes” he replied, I am the rector and the 
              rector is the shepherd of his people”. I answered, If that 
              is so, you have not been round to see if I had any complaint.” 
              When I reached home I told my mother about the conversation, and 
              it quite upset her.  
            In the summer I began mowing and reaping, and draining with my 
              father in the winter. The first summer I mowed I was about eighteen 
              years old, and went to Fisherton-Delamore, in Wiltshire. I was there 
              over six weeks with my uncle and cousin, and we slept in a barn 
              with 
            Six Irish “taskers,” whose kindness I have never forgotten. 
               
              It was very wet on three days of the sixth week, and reaping was 
              impossible; so my uncle went down to the village inn at Wheyley. 
              There he met the Champion Cudgel player of Wiltshire, who challenged 
              him to fight for £5, and this my uncle accepted. My cousin 
              and I were not there, but the master for whom we worked came and 
              told us what was happening, so we went down with him. The two opponents 
              were just mounting the stage as we reached the place; the game began, 
              and at the seventh round, my uncle was the winner. Our master told 
              us it would not be safe for us to stay there, because the people 
              would be so jealous of any one who beat their champion, so he got 
              us all three away quietly. We started off from Wheyley and when 
              we reached Chicklett Bottom we called at the inn. I told the landlord 
              all about it, and he hid us in a loft, and locked the door, putting 
              the key in a hole in the wall where we could reach it from inside. 
              We had not been there more than half an hour when the searchers 
              arrived. My uncle and cousin were asleep, but I was awake and heard 
              them talking down below. After discussing our most likely whereabouts, 
              they came to the conclusion that we must have taken another road, 
              so they turned and went back. I kept awake, and soon as it was daylight 
              I woke my companions, and told them what I had heard.  
            We left at once and passed onto Hindon, where we stopped and had 
              breakfast. We still did not feel quite safe, and travelled on to 
              Mere, and here had a good two hours rest, then made our way to Wincanton 
              and home. 
            The spring before this incident I was with my father throwing timber 
              at Wilkanthroop Corner, when the first train ran on the London and 
              South Western Railway, from London to Exeter. We could see it come 
              out of Buckhorn Weston tunnel from the field in which we were working. 
            Between the reaping and draining time, in the Autumn, I worked 
              in the Market Gardens at South Cheriton. Then I began to be dissatisfied 
              with myself, I felt a longing for something the world could not 
              give me.  
            On October 30 1844, Mr. Silas Dyke preached at 
              Cheriton on “Seek ye the Lord while He may be found; call 
              ye upon Him while he is near.” (Isa. !v. 6). Then and there 
              in the middle of the sermon I came down from the gallery, went up 
              to the penitent rail, and gave all for Christ. I received the conscious 
              pardon of all the past, and the peace of God which passeth all understanding. 
            Six other boys came out at the same time. I at once joined the 
              Wesleyan Church at Cheriton, and it was not long before I had the 
              chance to testify. Captain Bailward’s grandfather, 
              at one time, had me out with him marking timber, and he wanted me 
              to tell him what conversion meant, because he had heard of my decision. 
              I told what it had meant for me, and when I had finished, he said, 
              “If that is conversion, I have never known it; and there are 
              others in higher circles of religious life, Mark, who could not 
              have explained it like that. 
            Two years after my conversion I had a note from the superintendent 
              minister (Rev. Alexander Puddicombe) that I was 
              recommended to be placed on “trial” at the lay preachers 
              meeting, Christmas, 1846. I was two years on trial, taking services 
              all over the circuit (and I always walked), witnessing conversion 
              here and there. At the end of the two years I passed my examination 
              in company with two others, (E. Trowbridge of Holwell 
              and J. Hannam of Sherborne). I was very closely 
              examined on the doctrines of our Church, on the Methodist Second 
              Catechism, and Wesley’s notes. I preached my trial sermon 
              before the minister and three local preachers (G. Strickland, 
              G. Hewlett, and J. Barrett).  
            On Sunday night (before I passed my examination) I was returning 
              home, after taking the service at Poyntington. I reached Milborne 
              Wick and passed three navvies lying down apparently asleep; they 
              were most likely some of those who had been making the double line 
              on the railway.  
            Just as I passed they began to move and mutter to one another, 
              I had not gone far before I found they were chasing me. I at once 
              thought of my watch, so I took my penknife and made a hole in the 
              lining of my trousers and slipped the watch down the leg. They kept 
              gaining for about half a mile, but after that I seemed able to run 
              faster, and they gave up the chase at Stowell Cross roads.  
            Just after this I was at Rimpton, taking a service, I walked from 
              Cheriton, and it was pouring with rain, while the wind was terrible. 
              I got drenched, and several times took off the half Wellington boots 
              I wore at the time and emptied the water out of them. My mother 
              was so anxious that she came to meet me. I was alone on this journey, 
              but as a rule my dear friend, Samuel Smith, was 
              my companion on the way, if he was appointed at some place near. 
             Many journeys did we take together, and hard ones sometimes. Once 
              we had an accident, for when we reached Caundle Marsh the horse 
              fell, breaking the shafts of the trap. I was thrown into a high 
              thorn hedge, and when I looked Mr. Smith was under the horse. 
            I pulled him out, and after cutting the harness we hired a man 
              to take the horse back, we left the trap by the roadside. Then we 
              walked on to take the services. We thought we would be able to get 
              a friend to take us home, but failed; so we had to walk all the 
              way home. 
            Another time Mr. Smith was at Rimpton and I was 
              at Marston when the snow was on the ground. We reached there safely, 
              but coming back we lost our bearings, instead of turning to Milborn 
              Port Down, we followed the Bristol road and found ourselves quite 
              out of our course.  
            Another dear friend of mine was a Mr. F. Fish, 
              who came to live a few miles away, just as I passed my examination. 
              Our names came on the plan together, and we were never apart till 
              he died. As we lived so near one another, we made an agreement that 
              we would never ask a supply for one another unless there was a serious 
              reason for the request, and that if ever the request was made we 
              would neither refuse the other. We kept this promise to the end. 
             
            One other agreement we made, if ever a Methodist Church was built 
              in Wincanton, Fish and I would give a Bible and 
              Hymn-book. One day, sometime after his death, and after the new 
              Church at Wincanton was started, I was walking in the little back 
              garden of my house. It was a beautiful summer’s day, the air 
              was so peaceful and calm, all at once I heard a voice. At first 
              I thought it was some one on the roof seeing to the gutters, but 
              no one was there. Then it came again, as clear as anything, “Remember 
              your promise Mark” and I knew it was Fish speaking to me. 
              This was on a Friday, and the next day I wrapped up some food and 
              bought a bottle of ginger beer, hiding them in the pig sty. When 
              Sunday morning came I found these things and set off to walk to 
              Wincanton. As I walked up the street I saw the minister come out 
              of the chapel, together with the stewards, I stopped him at once 
              and told him that I intended to give the Bible and Hymn book to 
              the new place of worship. 
            Before the chapel was built at South Cheriton the services were 
              held at Pavlings House, Mutton Hill, the residence of John 
              Pitman. In the summer of 1844 they held an open air service 
              in his orchard; Mr. Smith was the preacher, and 
              though I was quite young, I remember carrying our Bible up from 
              my fathers house. While the chapel was being built, the Rev. 
              Alex. Puddicombe preached on the ground wall. 
            After the new church was opened, for years Mr. Jesse Dodimead from 
              Corton Denham was appointed once every quarter; he always began 
              the afternoon service with the Hymn,”Father of me and all 
              mankind”.  
            His daughter nearly always came with him. She now lives quite near 
              to me (Mrs. H. Collard) Henstridge and whenever 
              I am in that village I know there is a home which will welcome me. 
            In the summer following my examination I went to Wiltshire, a place 
              near Tisbury, harvesting. While I was there the Methodists got to 
              hear of me, and asked me to take a service in that church, but I 
              declined, offering instead to take one in the open air. It was held 
              in the quarries, and I was rather troubled because when I went harvesting 
              I never took my best clothes with me; but though they said they 
              would find me a suit for the service I said I would rather take 
              it in my smock frock. I suppose the novelty of it brought the people, 
              for about three hundred came together in those quarries, and the 
              singing was so hearty. I shall never forget that service, with all 
              those people singing with feeling “Jesu Lover of my Soul” 
              I preached on the Prodigal Son. 
            Just after my examination I was appointed to Holwell, where I met 
              my first wife (Emily Frizzell). In her I found 
              one of the greatest helps that any man could have. Not long afterwards 
              I was seized with typhoid fever, and for three weeks I lay unconscious. 
              The doctor gave up all hopes of my recovery, but in the meantime 
              the Rev. W. Nicholson came over to Cheriton for 
              the quarterly renewal of tickets, and in the meeting he remarked 
              that this was too valuable a life for them to lose, and he called 
              on them to pray that I might be restored. While they were praying 
              the fever took a turn for the better, and I gradually recovered 
              my strength. I was practically quite well when my mother took the 
              fever. She was only ill about a week, she died on June-4-1865. I 
              was married at Sherborne Wesleyan Church, by the Rev. E.Fison. 
            The following Autumn I went to work at Latiford House, where I 
              stayed over fifteen years. My duties were to take charge of the 
              cows, pigs, poultry, dogs and ferrets. One Sunday afternoon the 
              young gentlemen came to me for the ferrets to go ratting. As I always 
              kept them locked up, I refused; then the boys went to their father 
              to complain, but he only said it was no more than he had expected 
              of me. 
            On February-16-1867, my first child was born, a daughter; I had 
              seven children in all, three sons and four daughters. Three are 
              living now, one at Highbridge, one at Street, and one in my own 
              village, who has written all this down at my dictation. 
            During the fifteen years at my last place I lived at North Cheriton; 
              all at once the village day school closed and I did not know what 
              to do with my children.  
              I wrote to the Educational Authorities in London, with the result 
              that a few days later a man came from London who put a notice on 
              the church door, saying the parish must open the school within a 
              fortnight, or the Government themselves would open one. About this 
              time a branch of the Labour Union was formed at Horsington, but 
              I did not join it for six month. And as soon as I joined I was made 
              president of the branch. I held this office till the Union was dissolved. 
            Just before I left Mr. Dendy’s service I 
              lost my eldest son. I was appointed to go to Blackford on the Sunday, 
              and when the doctor told me he could not live I felt so upset that 
              I wandered for two hours in a large field between Maperton and Blackford. 
              I thought “How can God be good to take my boy?” I prayed 
              and prayed, till at last the Voice said, “What thou knowest 
              not now, thou shalt know hereafter” and I was comforted. 
            My father was a road contractor, so when I left Mr. Dendy 
              I worked on the road. At harvest time I again visited Wiltshire, 
              to Monkton Deverill, near Warminster. While there I went to the 
              parish church as there was no chapel. The clergyman was very evangelical, 
              and he must have known what I was, for he invited me to conduct 
              a service on his lawn. Again I was without any Sunday clothes, so 
              I took it in my frock. People from all the adjoining Deverills came 
              and we had a large congregation. I took my text from Acts v.42; 
              “And daily in the temple, and in every house they ceased not 
              to teach and preach Jesus Christ.” I stood on the wall to 
              preach while the people filled the lawn and the village green beyond. 
            When I returned I helped my father make the new road at Horsington, 
              and then the squire at Horsington Manor, Mr. T.H.M.Bailward 
              asked me to come and look after the game for him, as he was out 
              of a keeper.  
              When he got another keeper I “trapped” on the estate 
              for three years, then I worked regularly in his gardens. Though 
              Mr. Bailward was blind, he superintended the garden 
              himself. At the end of seven years he kept a head gardener (Mark 
              Puffett of Wincanton) who was a brother local preacher; 
              but Mr.Bailward still watered and pruned the fruit 
              trees with me. For thirty years, once or twice a week, we rolled 
              the lawns together for him to have exercise. He would never roll 
              them with anyone else. I understood draining well so when he was 
              having the estate drained I used to go round with him, though this 
              often brought me into trouble with the drainers and farmers. We 
              also went over all the farms once a year to see that everything 
              was in order. 
            On these rounds we used to talk of many things which must have 
              been interesting, to say the least of it, as he was a Churchman, 
              I a Nonconformist; he a Conservative and I a Liberal. Sometimes 
              we had very amusing talks, but he always gave every one the liberty 
              of his own opinions, so much so that when the Liberal candidate 
              came to Horsington for a meeting, the chairman failing, the candidate 
              asked Mr. Bailward to take the chair. He refused as he intended 
              going there on purpose to ask him a number of important questions, 
              but Mr. Bailward sugested that I should take the 
              chair, which I did. I was one of the delegates for the East Somerset 
              Liberal Association. In 1886, as I knew the Temperance Society wanted 
              a piece of land on which to build a hall I told Mr. Bailward 
              about it and asked if he could help. He suggested that the Mission 
              Hall would do, with a few alterations, and a small landlord’s 
              rent, but I told him we would rather have some land for our own 
              hall. He said, “I see, you want a house of your own Mark.” 
              Finally I suggested a piece of odd garden, which he did not know 
              belonged to him till I proved it. He gave it to us, and that is 
              land on which the hall now stands. He gave us the deeds free of 
              charge, and five pounds when the hall was opened. He presided at 
              each anniversary meeting and always subscribed. I was now living 
              at Horsington. 
            On January- 2- 1891, my greatest sorrow befell me, for my wife 
              was taken from me by the cruel hand of death. Words cannot express 
              what I felt, she was a most devoted wife and mother, and I have 
              never felt any sorrow so much. Over a hundred friends were present 
              at her funeral to pay their last tribute, and two funeral sermons 
              were preached 
            She was sadly missed, as she was always ready to welcome my brother 
              local preachers and ministers to our home. In 1879 I was appointed 
              class-leader and superintendent of the Sunday School; these duties, 
              with the preaching, Temperance work, and my daily labour, were almost 
              too much for me, but I was enabled to fulfil them. 
            At the time when the Rev. C.H.Cheetham was in 
              the circuit a convention was held at Yeovil for the upper part of 
              the Exeter District. I attended, and there were papers read on various 
              subjects, all parts of Methodist work. I spoke on class-leading, 
              preaching, and the Sunday school, and after the meeting the Chairman 
              of the District, as well as our own ministers, came up and congratulated 
              me. 
            I joined the Horsington Provident and Friendly Society when it 
              first formed, and am still on the committee. When it was started 
              there were only twenty-eight members, now we have about ninety. 
              In September, 1892, I married my present wife. I never had an illness 
              after I had typhoid fever, till December 1907, when I had to go 
              into hospital at Templecombe. The doctor thought an operation would 
              be necessary, but he found it was not after all. I was there three 
              weeks; which included Christmas, and it was one of the happiest 
              times of my life. All the nurses were so kind, and Lady 
              Guest visited us several times. Our minister, Mr 
              Cheetham, spoke of the influence he felt directly he entered 
              the ward; also our good rector visited a number of times, and it 
              was a pleasure to talk with him. The Matron said that my list of 
              visitors quite beat the record. When I left hospital I stayed at 
              home for a week and then returned to my usual work. Just before 
              my illness I lost another true friend, my masters butler, T.Vile. 
              For thirty years we had been close friends; every Sunday morning 
              we made it a point to have a talk about better things, and his death 
              meant a great sorrow in my life. 
            Our superintendent minister (Rev.R.Maynard) presented 
              me with silver Local Preacher’s Medal in May 1909, with the 
              inscription “Valiant for the truth.” How unworthy I 
              felt when he gave it to me. 
            Then my dear respected master died. My duties had endeared me to 
              him for thirty-five years, and life did not seem the same without 
              him. I missed the log walks and talks I had with him. I remember 
              how one morning we went out together, and by and by he sat down 
              to rest. “Read something to me, Mark,” he asked, but 
              I only had a newspaper in my pocket, and was rather timid of the 
              long words; but he would have me read it, and between us we got 
              through. Then he asked, “Who taught you to read Mark?” 
              I told him how all the education I ever received had been from the 
              Methodist Sunday school, and he thought it a splendid thing. I am 
              still working at the Manor for my late master’s eldest son, 
              Captain J. Bailward, for whom I receive great kindness. 
              The gardener and caretaker are also very kind to me. Now I am growing 
              old, I have had visions of the Heavenly City, and when I think that 
              that will be my future Home, it is almost too much for me. You know 
              I am a bit of a visionary. 
            Just one word as to the way in which I make my sermons, and then 
              I will finish. I always read some of the God’s Words every 
              day, and then a text will seem to specially strike me, and I think 
              to myself- “I must preach from that some day.” I go 
              to bed and sleep with the  
            Thought still running in my mind. When I wake up all the chief 
              outline of a sermon is before me, mapped out quite clearly. I take 
              these ideas and work them up and fill them out,--like a farmer who 
              buys cows and then fattens them. Most of my sermons have been made 
              in this way. 
            For nearly two years, my hearing had been failing me, getting worse 
              and worse till I was almost deaf; but I hardly realized it till 
              one day in April. The gardener asked me if I had heard the cuckoo 
              yet, and I said no; so he took me to a little cops where he had 
              heard it. “There, Mark” he said, “Can’t 
              you hear it now/” I listened hard, and I might have heard 
              just the sheer of a sound, but I was not sure. All at once it came 
              over me that it was the beginning of the end, I should never hear 
              the cuckoo again. I was too heart broken to pray, and went to sleep 
              feeling that life was at an end already. When I woke up I knew something 
              had happened during the night, but I could not tell what, till all 
              at once I realised my hearing had been given back to me, I could 
              hear everything as clearly as I ever did. I was telling some one 
              about it not long after, one who was not given to talking very deeply 
              about things and he said, “Ah, Mark, Your Father knew all 
              about it, and he stretched out His hand to help you.” 
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